Mom and Dad are divorcing or have been divorced and are now sharing joint custody of their children in the same city in Texas.  One parent receives a letter from the other parent’s attorney requesting that this parent be allowed to relocate the children to another state so he/she may take a better job position with another company!  This is a dilemma no parent ever wants to experience!  Child Custody cases involving interstate relocation jurisdiction issues cause much heartache and are costly legal battles.

What can a Parent do to protect themselves from children being relocated away from the non-moving parent to another state without her/his consent?   How may this affect the parent’s relationship with the children?

The Texas Family Code 153.002 Best Interest of Child states “The best interest of the child shall always be the primary consideration of the court in determining the primary consideration of the court in determining the issues of conservatorship and possession of and access to the child.”

The Texas Family code does not elaborate on the specific requirement for modification in the residency-restriction context, and there are no specific statutes governing residency restrictions or their removal for purposes of relocation. Texas Courts have no statutory standards to apply to this context.

The Texas Legislature has provided Texas Family Code 153.001, a basic framework on their public policy for all suits affecting the parent-child relationship:

1. The public policy of this state is to:

1. Assure the children will have frequent and continuing contact with parents who have shown the ability to act in the best interest of the child;

2. Provide a safe, stable, and nonviolent environment for the child;

3. Encourage parents to share in the rights and duties of raising their child after the parents have separated or dissolved their marriage.

How does The State of Texas treat an initial Child Custody determination?

Texas Family Code 152.201 of the UCCJEA states, among other things, that a court may rule on custody issues if the Child:

*Has continually lived in that state for 6 months or longer and Texas was the home state of the child within six months before the commencement of the legal proceeding.

*Was living in the state before being wrongfully abducted elsewhere by a parent seeking custody in another state. One parent continues to live in Texas.

*Has an established relationship with people (family, relatives or teachers), ties, and attachments in the state

*Has been abandoned in an emergency: or is safe in the current state, but could be in danger of neglect or abuse in the home state

Relocation is a child custody situation which will turn on the individual facts of the specific case, so that each case is tried on its own merits.

Most child custody relocation cases tried in Texas follow a predictable course:

1. Allowing or not allowing the move.

2. Order of psychological evaluations or social studies of family members

3. Modification of custody and adjusting of child’s time spent with parents

4. Adjusting child support

5. Order of mediation to settle dispute

6. Allocating transportation costs

7. Order opposing parties to provide all information on child’s addresses and telephone #

Help to Prevent Your Child’s Relocation in a Texas Court by Preparing Your Case!  

1. Does the intended relocation interfere with the visitation rights of the non- moving parent?

2. The effect on visitation and communication with the non-moving parent to maintain a full and continuous relationship with the child

3. How will this move affect extended family relationships living in the child’s current location?

4. Are there bad faith motives evident in the relocating parent?

5. Can the non-moving parent relocate to be close to the child? If not, what type of separation hardship would the child have?

6. The relocating parent’s desire to accommodate a new job, spouse, or other criteria above the parent-child relationship. A Parent’s personal desire for move rather than need to move?

7. Is there a significant degree of economic, emotional or education enhancement for the relocating parent and child in this move?

8. Any violation of an order or prior notice of the intended move or a temporary restraining order

9. Are Special Needs/ Talents accommodated for the child in this move?

10. Fear of child and high cost of travel expenses for non-moving parent or child to visit each other to be able to continue parent- child relationship.

11. What other Paramount Concerns would affect the child concerning the relocation from the non-moving parent?

At the Nacol Law Firm PC, we represent many parents trying to prevent their child from relocating to another city or state and having to experience “A Long Distance Parental Relationship” brought on by a better job or new life experience of the relocating parent! We work at persuading courts to apply the specific, narrow exceptions to these general rules in order to have child custody cases heard in the most convenient forum in which the most qualifying, honest evidence is available; cases where the child’s home state or other basic questions are clarified, and cases where a parent has the right in close proximity with their child regardless of other less important factors.

Has the time come to seriously start thinking about divorcing your Addict Spouse? After much heartbreaking soul searching has the time to break the downhill addictive spiral come for you and your family? Have you decided to stop the instability and damaging personal assaults the addictive spouse and parent has inflicted on the entire family?

Here are some possible questions you may ask yourself before making the final decision of divorcing your Addict Spouse:

• Have you acknowledged to yourself that your spouse is an addict?
  
• Have you acknowledged to your spouse that he/she is an addict?
  
• Has your life and that of your family become chaotic and unstable as a result of living with an addict?
  
• Have you gotten help for yourself and your spouse from an addiction expert?
  
• Have you attended counseling with your spouse and a knowledgeable addiction therapist?
  
• Have you or your family experienced serious negative consequences as a result of your spouse’s addiction?
  
• Have you considered or tried an intervention?
  
• Have you told your addict spouse that you are contemplating divorce unless he/she stops using?
  
• Are you now ready to leave the marriage and stop the pain?

You do not have to live in this current situation. Are you, as the non-addictive spouse, already the enabler in this relationship? Many times when the addictive spouse does seek professional help it is already too late for the marriage to survive.

If you have a family, addictive reality is very destructive to you and all family members involved. Most non-addictive family members feel very helpless in stopping the family unit from being destroyed or addressing the viability of the marriage.

(credit : National Institute on Chemical Dependency: http://nicd.inspirehealth.org/)